Prayer Group › My Wife Paivi's upcoming surgery
As you may know my wife Paivi has Alzheimer’s disease. On top of this burden she has some physical issues probably related to childbirth 25 years ago. Her bladder and uterus have prolapse and repair surgery has been set for Valentine’s Day, February 14th. There is a chance her brain can be negatively affected by the anesthesia. The day after she will be moved to memory care and this may be a permanent move and very difficult for both of us. She needs more mental stimulation and activities and care than I can offer her. Exactly 29 years of marriage, a full Saturn return. Pray that I understand what me next mission is.
Warren, know that I hold you in my heart. I pray for a safe, successful surgery with no negative side effects for your beloved Paivi. From the pictures and stories you have shared since your move to California I am certain that you and Paivi have made many beautiful, delightful, heartfelt memories. Paivi may not recall them now but they are forever tucked into her heart. What a courageous act of love realizing it is time to provide Paivi with 24 hour professional care. I pray your children agree. As far as your next mission I have no doubt that you are already well on your way. I see change, growth and enlightenment in every one of your daily posts. So, Warren, I send to You, Paivi and your children, light, love and unlimited healing. Margo
Warren, sending love and light to your family and especially Paivi in the coming days! I hope the surgery was successful and Paivi is resting comfortably today. Sometimes situations present themselves to nudge us forward. With the need for surgery and the need to reside in memory care following surgery, this transition may be happening so The decision feels ever so slightly easier and not all on you and the children’s shoulders to choose the transition date to full time care.
With each transition there is still uncertainly that we each feel but you have always been cared for, I am sure this will all make sense to you in the coming days, weeks, and months.
Continue to take care of yourself Warren, guide your children and offer unconditional love to Paivi.
Marvelous things lie ahead for you and for our Earth. Lao Tzu frequently said, “New beginnings are often disguised as painful endings.” Just as Thomas Moore and Ralph Waldo Emerson, Paivi’s soul will continue to expand irrespective of outer circumstance or the deterioration of flesh. I rejoice that the Brotherhood have you now in this capacity. I will be with you every step of the way.
“It is my desire to prove that The Brotherhood ‘does not err.’ It is My Desire to prove through the flesh in Manifest Fact that ‘Perfection can be Manifest’ and that ‘Harmony can be Sustained.’ That those bold enough to hold Our Hand ‘Can Be Victorious!’ And that those ‘Ordained to Special Service’ are not chosen amiss.” -Morya
Thank you for your kind thoughts and prayers. The surgery went as planned, although she may remain incontinent for life. We got the diagnosis today that it is not Alzheimers she has, but frontal temporal dementia, which explains why memory and disorientation are not the main symptoms.
My heart goes out to you and your beloved Paivi. I sense that you are bringing healing to her on a soul level that will strengthen the eternal bond between the two of you. As you give healing, you also receive it. Surely, you too, are continuing to evolve on many levels as you do the work that you contracted to do.
I so miss your healing presence in Minneapolis. I am sure that I am still walking the earth in good health, as I approach my 78th birthday full of life and vitality. as a result of your care. I am so grateful to you for the unique, multi-dimensional healing that you provided.
I pray that you will continue to find joyful moments with Paivi as you journey with her during these days. The depth of your love serves as an inspiration to all of us.